As an escort in Australia it can be extremely difficult to maintain regular relationships especially romantic ones. While you may soon find that there is definitely some added profits in treating your clients like they have been long-standing partners, ultimately this can really start to affect some of the closest romantic relationships in your life. Your job can really affect your job and it’s tough to find a separation between work and your own personal life.
This really isn’t an issue that’s addressed commonly in the industry but it is important to note that working as an escort does have some advantages to sex and maintaining relationships.
The nice part about the personal sex life of an escort is that it’s extremely comfortable. While there is a lot of pressure and stigma attached to sex for other people, many escorts are extremely comfortable, extremely safe and confident with partners. This confidence and education can improve the way that a couple treats their romantic time together. It encourages communication and an unfound openness.
It can however also lead to some ups and downs. It’s important to note that people in the adult industry can most definitely face a lot of the same medical and psychological issues that plague us in all relationships. It can be tough to establish that separation between the act you put on with clients and the genuine feelings you have for another person. There is bound to be a bit of fear, shame and guilt associated with getting to know someone as well as some preconceived biases about trauma with sexual relationships from past difficult experiences. Although it can be difficult to share these past issues with partners and to have the energy to go home and express your love physically, with the right communication and perseverance it possible to have very healthy and meaningful romantic relationships even if you work in the adult industry.
